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Telling
A Dog Not To Do Something
Is Not Enough!
Contrary to popular belief,
it is not enough for you to tell your dog not to do something. It
leaves him clueless as to what to do instead. Obedience commands
are the tools you use. You tell him to STAY rather than holding
him back from running out the door. You tell him to COME and SIT
instead of grabbing him so he can't jump on someone. Your directions
acknowledge his intelligence and establish your leadership.
"The Criticism
Trap"
Other owners seem to
constantly correct their dogs for one thing or another. These owners
really need obedience training. It will give them opportunities
to praise their dog.
There are dogs that are
so accustomed to an owner's negative attention they become insensitive
to it and find it rewarding. Wesley C. Becker, in Parents are
Teachers, refers to this as "The Criticism Trap". He uses the
grumpy old school teacher as an example. The grumpy old school teacher
turns her back on the class to write on the chalkboard, and instantly
the kids are standing up and acting out. The teacher turns around
and yells, "Sit down!" The kids sit down and so the teacher is rewarded
for yelling, "Sit down". However, as soon as she turns her back
again, everyone is standing up again. Why? It is to get her to yell,
"Sit down". That's the trap. We yell "NO!" and the dog quits. We're
rewarded, and then he does it again to get us to yell "NO!" Negative
attention can be very rewarding.
If You
Only Notice A Dog
When It's Being Naughty
You Will End Up With a Naughty Dog!
When you go through obedience
training, you practice daily and on a daily basis you praise good
behavior. Your dog gets treats, but, most of all, he gets positive
attention for appropriate behavior.
An owner may say, "We
don't need obedience training, he does everything I ask. The dog
is perfect except for this one problem." Obedience training will
make the difference even in this case, because the dog has learned
to take your praise and affection for granted. You're so pleased
with him that he doesn't have to try to please you anymore. Your
reaction to his misbehaving is rewarding. Obedience training emphasizes
the fact that the dog does have a job and responsibilities. He does
have to be a good dog for your praise.
Obedience training is
an opportunity for you to reward your dog for being good and to
motivate him to want to be good. I've always said that a dog that
knows he's good usually doesn't want to do bad things. Yes, dogs
have self-esteem. A dog that values praise is not only more correctable,
but is motivated to be good.
It
is never too early or too late to begin training!
SUCCESS
SAVES LIVES!
& TOGETHER WE CAN!
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